Honestly, this concept was somehow new to me and I had to read this section many times. And I still did not get it very well. I’ve been going out twice a week and practicing Pure Kino™, still with weak results. But time and practice will fix this.

Pure Kino: Always touch everybody being friendly and dominant

The perspective that Mehow presents is that you must be super fun, bringing a lot of value to the set with very high energy. I seem to start to understand this concept now and will probably be editing this post as my practice of the Mehow Model gets better.

You know when you are afraid of approaching because your mind keeps saying things like “oh, they are in the middle of some conversation – probably a chick talk about work or some guy… well… I do not want to go there and interrupt… that may be rude and I will not be welcome… better wait a little”. Have you also had this type of though or was it just me?

If you can relate to what I have just described, then you have to read this direction box from Mehow fifty thousand times until you fully incorporate it. You are the value giver. You are fun! They will love to be cut by you. As Mehow explains, you are dominating in a friendly and fun way. That’s it. Go do it!

What is Pure Kino™?

I did not fully grasp in the first read what was the difference of Pure Kino™ and other types of kino. Besides from the normal touches on everybody in the group that are part of kino, Mehow explains that it is necessary to have a second element: subcommunicating that you live in your own reality, which is a very wild and fun one!

Given this introduction, the basic formula is provided for the standard interaction:

1. address the whole group with some time constraint (e.g. “you guys seem interesting and I came here to know you… for a second”)
2. be light and fun teasing the target girl (similar to Mystery’s ‘negs’ but with less chances of being misinterpreted)
3. do one past/future adventures projection
4. do one or two PureKino™ routines
5. isolate the girl from the group (here you may need the help of a friend or just explicitly tell the group you will be going with the girl over there and checking if everyone is cool with that)
6. move to the comfort phase

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Direction boxes make you feel like the star

However, the quick reader may not be able to fully grasp the concepts and those unfamiliar with self development literature may have difficulty in understanding and applying these concepts. As mentioned, Get the Girl! is best recommended for those with intermediate seduction skills familiar with the Mystery Method, but that does not mean that the newbies will also be able to extract great value from the eBook.

In talking the basics of attraction, Mehow agrees with the majority of PUA literature in recognizing that women will not be interested in having a real conversation with you unless you demonstrate value first. It may happen, but not consistently.

One very good realization by Mehow is that attraction shall be as fast and strong as possible because of the chaotic environment of the bar or club you will meet the girl (remember, this is the “nightlife edition” – a nice indicator that perhaps “Get the Girl – Daytime edition” may soon be released!). The solution for that is PureKino, Mehow’s technology to be used just after opening a set. With this, Mehow proudly states that he keeps the attraction phase in tight 3 minutes.

Kino Pinging

Before going to the details of PureKino, some other concepts are presented, such as Kino Pinging. This is something I constantly see men who are naturally good with women doing: just touching everybody whenever you talk to them. The original concept of Kino Pinging in the Mehow Model is to be “totally non sexual way” and also brief and light, with some escalation (first a knuckle tap, then touching with the palm of the hand, then holding her hand as you tell her something). Being subtle and discreet allows many positive things happen to your favor, such as keeping her unsure of your interest and also making her feel comfortable in front of her friends.

No rule is absolute however. Instead of understanding any advice as a rule, it is better to see them as guidelines and adapt them according to your personality. Thus, I would also include that if you want to play less smooth and be more direct, go for The Claw. The idea of escalating is very good for using the law of familiarity (if you tapped before, a quick touch will not be so unfamiliar, and will open space for holding hands, then a hug… etc), however if the frame of escalation is noticed, then this may have negative effects such as some defense as the girl will expect that you will try to advance more.

On the other hand, kinoing directly with The Claw or other stronger kino movement sets from the right beginning the frame that you are a confident man who has all the attractive qualities mentioned by Mehow. Plus, it establishes strong sexual tension. Try both ways and see which one goes better for you: advancing subtly or going direct.

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