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Attraction - Pure Kino™

Honestly, this concept was somehow new to me and I had to read this section many times. And I still did not get it very well. I’ve been going out twice a week and practicing Pure Kino™, still with weak results. But time and practice will fix this.

Pure Kino: Always touch everybody being friendly and dominant

To understand the underlying ideas of Pure Kino, the direction box (the blue box where Mehow plays movie director telling how to play your role) is fundamental. I have a friend who used to say “don’t touch the woman as if you are a baker” – he is totally right. There is a lot that shall happen when you touch the women, otherwise you can become creepy or just lacking sensuality.

The perspective that Mehow presents is that you must be super fun, bringing a lot of value to the set with very high energy. I seem to start to understand this concept now and will probably be editing this post as my practice of the Mehow Model gets better.

You know when you are afraid of approaching because your mind keeps saying things like “oh, they are in the middle of some conversation – probably a chick talk about work or some guy… well… I do not want to go there and interrupt… that may be rude and I will not be welcome… better wait a little”. Have you also had this type of though or was it just me?

If you can relate to what I have just described, then you have to read this direction box from Mehow fifty thousand times until you fully incorporate it. You are the value giver. You are fun! They will love to be cut by you. As Mehow explains, you are dominating in a friendly and fun way. That’s it. Go do it!

What is Pure Kino™?

I did not fully grasp in the first read what was the difference of Pure Kino™ and other types of kino. Besides from the normal touches on everybody in the group that are part of kino, Mehow explains that it is necessary to have a second element: subcommunicating that you live in your own reality, which is a very wild and fun one!

Given this introduction, the basic formula is provided for the standard interaction:

address the whole group with some time constraint (e.g. “you guys seem interesting and I came here to know you… for a second”)
be light and fun teasing the target girl (similar to Mystery’s ‘negs’ but with less chances of being misinterpreted)
do one past/future adventures projection
do one or two PureKino™ routines
isolate the girl from the group (here you may need the help of a friend or just explicitly tell the group you will be going with the girl over there and checking if everyone is cool with that)
move to the comfort phase