Comfort in the Mehow Model
The large majority of pickup theories agree in one point: comfort is the most important phase of the attraction. That’s also what common sense tells us, and that is why the average guy approaches the girl trying to immediately get rapport with the lines “hi, how are you?”, “what do you like to do on the weekends” and so on.
What is wrong in these examples?
Maybe if your are Brad Pitt you can start with rapport… otherwise, pay attention to the order of things: first the opening, then the attraction and finally isolate to build comfort
The opening, attraction and isolation phases are necessary, even they may look weird. They are useful in allowing your entry to the comfort stage.
According to Mystery (and seconded by Mehow) the ideal comfort phase lasts from 4 to 10 hours. It is possible to accelerate this, by doing hypnosis, NLP commands or using other strategies, such as RSD’s Shock and Awe, all of which will be soon explored in detail here.
However, one word of warning: first, it is important that you learn how to do the regular 4 to 10 hour comfort. Only then you will be ready to use accelerators when appropriate. I personally do NOT recommend it.
The reason is that I know many people who used accelerators and almost all of them relate that they felt bad, heavily depressed and did not have any satisfaction. They report that on the day after, the women feel guilty about having intimacy with someone they did not have comfort with. Obviously this hardly leads to a healthy relationship. So they start to avoid seeing each other.
So what is the comfort phase about?
Well, it is where you finally get to know her!
Have you ever heard the expression “social mask”? The social mask is used in different contexts. In the family circle, we use one, which is different from the social mask at the office, which is different from the social mask at the gym and so on.
In the nightlife, even when having fun, that gorgeous girl can be wearing the “I’m a bitch and I just came here to dance” social mask. This does not mean at all she is a cold insensible party girl. That is not her – it is her social mask!
Understand that this is just a social mask, and that she is probably a lovely person to get to know. But you have to be able to do the comfort stage properly. The next posts will explore how Mehow recommends doing it.
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