http://fromvictorwithlove.com/blog Lifestyle, Seduction and Romance for Men who Love Women and Travelling Wed, 16 Jan 2008 20:43:36 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en My meeting with Lance Mason and the PickUp101 team was not possible but on my flight back to Europe I had a very pleasant surprise: Neil Strauss (aka Style) was walking by my side in the Heathrow airport. He was returning to LA from a press conference in Europe. And - ... http://fromvictorwithlove.com/blog/2008/01/16/thanks-neil/ I'm a huge fan of Lance Mason and his crew. For more than one decade, I was able to meet and kiss many women in nightlife, and go back home with their numbers. And I was very consistent - I can say I had almost 100% consistency ... of flakes. It ... http://fromvictorwithlove.com/blog/2008/01/09/pickup101-interview-to-be-announced/ Next in The Neuro Linguistic Programming Workbook: A Practical Guide to Achieving the Results You Want, Joseph O’Connor deals with the ecology of things. No, he is not talking about how to save whales or protect Earth from global warming. Ecology has to be understood as the effects that your outcome will ... http://fromvictorwithlove.com/blog/2008/01/01/you-really-have-to-want-it/ 9. We already have the resources we need. Or we can create them. As an unfolding of pressuposition 4, we are resourceful people. Maybe we can be temporarily in a state of mind that does not help much, but this can be changed. 10. Mind and body form a system. They are ... http://fromvictorwithlove.com/blog/2007/12/24/the-pressupositions-of-nlp-%e2%80%93-mind-and-body-successful-models-and-the-importance-of-action/ 4. People work perfectly Nobody is wrong or broken, says O’Connor. If we are doing something that can be considered wrong, it is because we are applying the wrong strategy. The strategy is wrong, we as people are not. Because of that, it is important to understand which strategies we use and, ... http://fromvictorwithlove.com/blog/2007/12/24/the-pressupositions-of-nlp-%e2%80%93-communication-is-what-you-mean-and-what-the-others-perceive/ Next, O’Connor goes to list the 13 pressupositions of NLP, its central principles that have to be pre-supposed as useful to your work. 1. People respond to their experience and not to reality itself What is reality? Here we could enter the delicate and infinite debate on philosophy and What-Is-The-Matrix type of ... http://fromvictorwithlove.com/blog/2007/12/23/the-pressupositions-of-nlp-reality-maps-and-choices/ The Importance and Use of Isolation in the Comfort Phase Mehow is clear and direct: Before we can get the girl to love us, she has to spend some time with us. I will complement and illustrate this idea by telling one of many frustrated experiences I had in the past. The most important ... http://fromvictorwithlove.com/blog/2007/12/21/get-the-girl-isolation-in-the-comfort-phase/ Comfort in the Mehow Model The large majority of pickup theories agree in one point: comfort is the most important phase of the attraction. That’s also what common sense tells us, and that is why the average guy approaches the girl trying to immediately get rapport with the lines “hi, how ... http://fromvictorwithlove.com/blog/2007/12/21/get-the-girl-introduction-to-comfort/ To illustrate how to apply the pillars of NLP into your life, let us get the classic example of the "one-itis" syndrome. Example: Victor, there is this one girl from my school. I am quite good with the ladies, nothing extraordinary, but did have some nice girlfriends in the past. So far ... http://fromvictorwithlove.com/blog/2007/12/20/applying-the-pillars-of-nlp-to-your-love-life-%e2%80%93-the-one-itis-example/ The pillars of NLP In the NLP Workbook: A Practical Guide to Achieving the Results You Want, author Joseph O’Connor continues his introduction to neuro linguistic programming by setting six fundamental pillars. Understanding and applying them is necessary to move on. 1. You You have to take responsibility, in the sense of response-ability. ... http://fromvictorwithlove.com/blog/2007/12/20/the-nlp-workbook-the-pillars-of-nlp/