From Victor With Love

Chapter 3
Three Minute Attraction

One of the elements that makes Get the Girl! Nightlife edition very unique is the use of “Direction” boxes by which Mehow acts like a movie director providing you, the main star, with the right frame to play your role. The positive side of these boxes is that they are worth gold when properly used.

However, the quick reader may not be able to fully grasp the concepts and those unfamiliar with self development literature may have difficulty in understanding and applying these concepts. As mentioned, Get the Girl! is best recommended for those with intermediate seduction skills familiar with the Mystery Method, but that does not mean that the newbies will also be able to extract great value from the eBook.

In talking the basics of attraction, Mehow agrees with the majority of PUA literature in recognizing that women will not be interested in having a real conversation with you unless you demonstrate value first. It may happen, but not consistently.

One very good realization by Mehow is that attraction shall be as fast and strong as possible because of the chaotic environment of the bar or club you will meet the girl (remember, this is the “nightlife edition” – a nice indicator that perhaps “Get the Girl – Daytime edition” may soon be released!). The solution for that is PureKino, Mehow’s technology to be used just after opening a set. With this, Mehow proudly states that he keeps the attraction phase in tight 3 minutes.

Kino Pinging

Before going to the details of PureKino, some other concepts are presented, such as Kino Pinging. This is something I constantly see men who are naturally good with women doing: just touching everybody whenever you talk to them. The original concept of Kino Pinging in the Mehow Model is to be “totally non sexual way” and also brief and light, with some escalation (first a knuckle tap, then touching with the palm of the hand, then holding her hand as you tell her something). Being subtle and discreet allows many positive things happen to your favor, such as keeping her unsure of your interest and also making her feel comfortable in front of her friends.

No rule is absolute however. Instead of understanding any advice as a rule, it is better to see them as guidelines and adapt them according to your personality. Thus, I would also include that if you want to play less smooth and be more direct, go for The Claw. The idea of escalating is very good for using the law of familiarity (if you tapped before, a quick touch will not be so unfamiliar, and will open space for holding hands, then a hug… etc), however if the frame of escalation is noticed, then this may have negative effects such as some defense as the girl will expect that you will try to advance more.

On the other hand, kinoing directly with The Claw or other stronger kino movement sets from the right beginning the frame that you are a confident man who has all the attractive qualities mentioned by Mehow. Plus, it establishes strong sexual tension. Try both ways and see which one goes better for you: advancing subtly or going direct.

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